Your Personal Month for July 2003's compatibility is 2 and 5
INTRODUCTION
HOW TO READ YOUR RELATIONSHIP COMPATIBILITY REPORT
When two people are involved in a relationship, they get to know each other more deeply over time. At first, everything is wonderful and friction is rare. Then, as time goes by, you get to know other sides of your partner and, undoubtedly, discover some personality traits you don’t like, and other traits you appreciate. The more time you spend together, the more you get to know each other. But even if you consider your relationship almost perfect, you will certainly experience at least some areas of possible friction.
The purpose of this report is to point out the different personality traits you possess, and how compatible they are. This report will help you identify those properties that are, at least to some extent, not compatible, and suggest how to prevent them from damaging, or dominating, your relationship.
It is important to also keep in mind that you may have some qualities that, although positive, are not compatible, but that negative traits are almost always a cause for friction. Therefore, you may find that this Relationship Compatibility Report is at times more critical and perhaps somewhat harsh - unlike most readings of this kind. If you feel uncomfortable with that, remember that this report was designed to throw light on those aspects in your charts that need to be understood and recognized, because if they are not, they can do a lot more damage than a few critical remarks in a reading.
You will probably encounter some texts such as: “The compatibility aspect in this area of the chart is already included in other parts of this report, offset by other conditions, or redundant”.
This is done in order to offer a perspective that is as well balanced and clear as possible, and repeating certain traits would place too much emphasis on them.
Master numbers are also handled somewhat different in a relationship compatibility report. They are reduced to their single digit values, because it is in the single digit’s archetype that those personality traits are represented. If a number that appears in your chart is 11, 22, or 33, and the compatibility refers to the numbers 2, 4, and 6 respectively, this is not a typo but an indicator that the compatibility is based on the single-digit sum of your Master number.
You will also find that some numbers normally included in a personal numerology reading are not included in a relationship compatibility report. This is because the compatibility between two people is influenced much more strongly -- as much as ninety-five percent -- by the core numbers, than by all the other numbers in the chart combined. In fact, the lesser numbers in the chart would only muddle the waters if analyzed in the context of a relationship compatibility report.
I hope you will enjoy your Compatibility Report and, more importantly, I hope you will find this reading to be beneficial to your relationship.
LIFE PATH
If ever there was a moment of total transformation, it was the moment of your birth. In that instant, you stepped through a door in time into a new reality -- the reality of human life. The most important number in your numerology chart is based on the date of your birth, the moment when the curtain goes up in your life.
The Life Path number gives us a broad outline of the opportunities, challenges, and lessons we encounter in this lifetime. Your Life path is the road you are traveling. It reveals the opportunities and challenges you face in life. Your Life Path number is the single most important information available in your Personality Chart!
Johnny and Maria, your Life Path is 30/3
Johnny and Maria, you both have the same number in this part of the chart. The following text therefore applies to both of you.
You possess a great talent for creativity and self expression. Many writers, poets, actors and musicians are born under the 3 Life Path. You are witty, possess a gift for gab, and savor the limelight. Your talent for the expressive arts is so abundant that you may well have felt drawn to becoming an artist while still very young. Your artistic abilities can only be developed, however, through discipline and commitment to the true development of your talent. Commitment, concentration and hard work are the only means of bringing forth your talent. Thanks to your gift for self expression, you can be the life of the party, and the center of attention. However, you could easily squander your talent by becoming a social butterfly. Your creativity is the gift that can give you the comfort and luxury you desire, but not without continual focus and discipline. You are optimistic and possess the resilience to overcome many setbacks. You are socially active, popular, and inspire people with your sunny "happy go lucky" attitude. You can be generous to a fault. Many people born under the 3 Life Path have difficulty handling money because they can be disorganized and not particularly serious about their responsibilities. You are emotional and vulnerable. When hurt, you withdraw into a cloud of silence, eventually emerging from your reticence with jokes and laughter that cover up your true feelings. You can become moody and cynical when depressed. You can succumb to sarcastic remarks, which can be painful to those around you. When used positively, your talent for self expression can be a great inspiration force in the world, uplifting others, and bringing much success and happiness to you.
Your Life Path's compatibility is 3 and 3
Johnny and Maria, your Life Path numbers are the most important numbers in your charts, and, as such, their compatibility is extremely important to the well-being of your relationship.
Johnny and Maria, you both have the creative, happy-go-lucky three in this part of the chart, which indicates lively communications. You inspire and motivate each other in a life-enforcing environment. You joke easily, and, most importantly, you laugh a lot at each other’s jokes. You know how to please each other, so you are able to enjoy each other’s company while moving around in a very active, dynamic social life. On the surface, there is little negative to say about this combination.
However, a little deeper look reveals that, unless you consciously work on it, this same happy-go-lucky environment you share can turn against you and become the root of some persistent problems. You both have a tendency to skim over the rough spots, emotionally and spiritually. This aspect of the chart reflects a strong preference to looking towards the sun without ever considering the shadows you throw behind you. Remember, though, that the sun does not shine throughout the year. No matter one’s preferences, springs, summers, autumns and winters will certainly come -- much to our advantage, each with its respective charm and beauty. All one has to do is to be prepared.
Other much more serious numbers also play in your chart. Therefore, keep in mind that the influence of the three is relative - - and should be understood as such. For a love relationship to have any chance of long-term happiness, you sometimes have to face the emotional turmoil that is, inevitably, part of everyone’s life. So, you should watch for subtle signs indicating that something might be bothering your partner because, although you are both excellent communicators, you don’t use that same talent to express your deeper, private, feelings. Always be attentive and, once you detect something, let’s say, different or strange - even if your partner insists on putting on that happy-go-lucky attitude - see that you two have a deeper, open and frank talk to clear the air.
Another result of this combination, Johnny and Maria, is that sometimes fun and joy become too high a priority, overshadowing such important issues as responsibility and duty. The number three is scattered, unfocused and impulsive, all necessary traits for anyone involved in creative endeavors. It allows for daydreaming, it provides the perfect environment for the mind to wander around in search of new territories, and that is what makes one creative. But, if they don’t come in the proper doses, those same traits can work against us. So, make sure you don’t loose sight of the need for effort and discipline to maintain a foundation of material security that will allow you to experience the fun and joy so necessary to the happiness of both of you.
As you may recognize, the fact that both of you have a three in this aspect of the chart does not mean that you have incompatible personalities. The danger lies in the fact that the less desirable side effects of the three may become enhanced if you don’t guard against them.
EXPRESSION
Your Expression number reveals your physical and mental constitution, the orientation or goal of your life. Some numerologists refer to this number as the Destiny, because it represents a lifelong target at which you are aiming. You work at fulfilling this potential every day of your life. Thus, the Expression number reveals your inner goal, the person you aim to be.
The Expression number reveals the talents, abilities, and shortcomings that were with you when you entered your human body. Your name, and the numbers derived from it, reveal your development, as well as the talents and issues you will be working with during this life.
For those for whom reincarnation is an accepted philosophy, the vibration of your full name can be seen as the totality of your personal evolution, the experiences, talents, and wisdom accumulated over many life times. Every experience, no matter how great or small, along this evolutionary path has influenced your development, and brought you to your current state of being.
The Expression is your being; the Life Path is the major lesson you are attempting to learn this time around. Time allows the gradual emergence of your personality. By reading the Expression number below, you will come to understand your basic nature and the abilities and issues inherent in your being.
Johnny, your Expression is 18/9
You are the humanitarian. You are attracted to a cause or a movement whose purpose is to make a better world. You are extremely idealistic, sometimes to the point of being naive about people or methods. You have great compassion and seek to create a more humane society. You are drawn to those who suffer physically or are at the hand of injustice. You are the righter of wrongs. Your deepest intention is to transform the world.
You are willing to sacrifice in order to advance your cause. Indeed, this seems to be a theme in your life. From time to time, you find yourself involved in a project whose very life depends upon your willingness to sacrifice something that relates directly to your ego.
You are highly idealistic. You are also a visionary, with the ability to influence and direct the masses. Deep inside, you long for the love and approval of the many, and seek fame.
Part of your hunger for fame has to do with your need for validation; you are your own harshest critic.
You realize your greatest satisfaction when you are involved in some activity that directly benefits the public good. Politics, law, protection of the environment, teaching, and healing are areas in which you would succeed.
You have a broad view of humanity and are not shackled with prejudice. You should have friends and associates from all walks of life, all colors and religious backgrounds. People fascinate and enrich you. A wide diversity of people and experiences stimulate and bring forth qualities within you that would otherwise lay dormant.
You have an abundance of artistic talent. Many with your Expression number find themselves in the arts, especially in literature, painting, and the visual and performing arts.
The number 9 indicates the completion of a cycle or a block of learning. The 9 Expression suggests that you have reached the point where a breakthrough can occur; during this lifetime you can apply all that you have learned along your evolutionary path and complete a major stage in your development. This is why we find many geniuses with the 9 Expression.
You have the ability to synthesize many diverse bits of knowledge into a unified whole.
Your appearance is important. You are keenly aware of how others perceive you. As a result, others see you as a person with a great deal of control. Conversely, you are charismatic. Despite the cool and distant personality you project, people are attracted to you.
You tend to express your love somewhat impersonally. You tend to be preoccupied with your vision or cause, and sometimes overlook the needs of those closest to you. You need to be reminded to give your love more personally and more openly. Ironically, you are a very loving and sincere person, but often neglect to express what you truly feel.
In the same way, you can overlook your own needs. You can avoid sharing of your deeper feelings, creating a reservoir of emotion. You tend to postpone your personal satisfaction in favor of some larger work. Try to be more spontaneous and courageous about showing your real self, including your vulnerability.
Your basic belief in the goodness of humanity is unshakable. This causes you to encourage the best in people, but occasionally makes you vulnerable to being taken advantage of. You are not a very good judge of character.
The surest way to personal satisfaction is for you to become part of some larger social cause. Your nature is to serve. You are happiest when you feel you are helping to advance the human race.
Maria, your Expression is 15/6
You are a loving and caring individual with a tendency to put the needs of others before those of yourself. You are responsible and trustworthy with a high regard for justice and honesty. Duty will follow you all your life and sometimes feel a little too much of a burden.
You are artistic. Harmony and beauty are high on your list of priorities. You have musical talent but the creative talents of a 6 are sometimes left undeveloped or suppressed as a result of your tendency to sacrifice your time and pleasure to the service of others. You are highly creative in all areas of life, particularly the visual. You are also a talented business person and can work methodically toward the realization of your goals.
You have a natural gift with flowers, gardens, and animals. Your love of children has caused numerologists to dub you the "Cosmic Mother or Cosmic Father". The very shape of the 6 resembles and symbolizes "Pregnant with Love".
You are a natural counselor and healer. But you must be careful not to interfere with the freedom of others. You are recognized as an idealist, mainly regarding marriage, friendships and humanity.
The 6 is the most balanced of all numbers, but also contains within itself the greatest paradoxes. It is as if opposite tendencies were tenuously poised. Because of its gift for harmonizing these opposites, you are uniquely qualified to handle and integrate contradictions within yourself. It is for this reason that 6s so frequently find themselves in the role of healers or counselors, creating a peace between opposing points of view, or internal conflicts within the self.
While you can be very idealistic, there may also be a temptation to acquire beautiful objects by improper means. You must also guard against other meddlesome behavior and domestic tyranny, or always having to have your own way in a family dispute.
Conversely, you have it within yourself to understand another person's dilemma and come up with a creative solution. Your natural ability to give comfort and warmth can smooth over hurt feelings like a healing balm. You attract love and appreciation. And rightly so, because you give the same in return.
You make an outstanding teacher (especially young children or special education), healer, counselor social worker, psychologist, artist, designer, gardener, florist, and farmer. You can be successful in business, especially those that involve dealing with people.
Your Expression's compatibility is 9 and 6
More than any other number in your chart, your Expression number reflects who you are as a person. Earlier, you read about the Life Path number and how important that number is in your chart. However, the Life Path number reflects “the path you walk on,” and should be seen more as a powerful influence than as a part of your personality makeup. Your Expression number on the other hand, reflects a deeper part of you. It is more difficult to overcome possible negative traits you may have recognized in yourself when they are found in this part of the chart, than when they are found under the Life Path description.
It can’t be emphasized too much how important it is to realize that numbers in different areas of the chart affect you differently, even when it is the same number. Sometimes, you may read something that seems to directly contradict earlier statements. Yet, if you take the time to think about them carefully, you will probably recognize that you, as a human being, are extremely complex and full of the same contradictions. This is simply the way we are. You may be organized in one area of your life, while chaos rules in another area. You may be tactful and sensitive in one setting, and direct and confrontational in another situation.
Maria and Johnny, all numbers dividable by three have several things in common. First and foremost, all these numbers respond to the physical, emotional and spiritual needs of others. In the case of a six, this is expressed mainly towards those in the immediate circle: family and friends. In the case of the nine, it is directed more towards people at large - pretty much all of mankind.
When a six and a nine are found between romantic partners in this part of the chart, compatibility is very good. Both of you, Maria and Johnny, are self-sacrificing, giving and caring people. Maria is more practical, Johnny more idealistic, but your motivations are similar.
Another aspect you have in common is your creativity and your eye for beauty, which, contrary to what might be expected, is pretty often a source of trouble for the six-and-nine combination. Maria and Johnny, sometimes you will see eye to eye when it comes to decorating, but often you won’t. And since you are both opinionated in this matter, in order to prevent unnecessary arguments, what you should do is give and take a little, something you are both quite capable of doing.
Another talent or trait you share is a sense of justice. The six and the nine are both strongly affected by a sense of right and wrong that can be very powerful - sometimes to the extent that they get involved in politics or become activists. Unless you happen to be on opposite ends of the political spectrum, this trait can further strengthen your bond.
The six and the nine, Maria and Johnny, are highly compatible. However, there are some areas where you may find yourself clashing if certain negative traits are allowed to grow. Although this is not common, a warning might be in place.
The nine, Johnny, with its idealistic and self-sacrificing nature, can also be arrogant and self-righteous. Recognizing the relative value of one’s concepts and ideas is not a strong point with the nine. Johnny, with your innate sense of justice, you may have recognized a tendency in yourself to put down those who don’t see things the same way as you do. Especially when combined with strong religious dogmas, the nine can become a negative influence on others, sometimes ruining a relationship - even with the most devoted partner. If you have found yourself in that corner, Johnny, you would do well to realize that what we believe and what we think, is just that, a thought, a concept, the truth as we see it. Always keep in mind that our perspective, no matter how enlightened, is still limited. Knowing that, we will be able to be compassionate and tolerant towards others. The nine, as you have read in the previous chapters, is the least prejudiced of all numbers, but as with all human traits, its dark side tends to be the direct opposite of the light side.
Although the most loving of all numbers, Maria’s six has a dark side as well, and a dark side that can be nasty indeed. The six can become intolerant and angry, often without a clear cause. The irritation and anger seem just to sit there, inside, waiting for an opportunity to break out, without rhyme or reason.
Maria and Johnny, the negative sides of either the six or the nine are rarely displayed, but you will need to watch out for them in order to prevent them from spoiling what is most certainly one of the best number combinations around.
HEART'S DESIRE
Your Heart's Desire is based on the vowels in your name. It is the inner you. It shows your underlying urge, your true motivation. It reveals the general intention behind many of your actions. Consequently, it dramatically influences the choices you make in life.
The Heart's Desire demonstrates the identity of the soul that joined the earth -- you, the spiritual being.
Johnny, your Heart's Desire is 28/1
Your overpowering need is to be independent and to direct your own life according to what you believe. Your dream is to become the leader of whatever field you enter. Whether it is in business, community, or in your general area of expertise, you are driven to be the reigning figure.
You have the courage and the confidence to lead others. You believe firmly that your judgment is preeminent over all others. This gives you the confidence to make bold decisions and carry them out, even when other lives are greatly affected by what you do. You rarely look back once you have made a decision.
You possess intelligence and wit. You are keenly insightful and are good at evaluating the abilities of others.
You are supremely individualistic. In your manner and dress, you like to project your own unique persona.
Consequently, you don't mind being controversial, and can even enjoy the attention and impact you have made on your surroundings.
You dislike routines, or anything that limits your freedom and independence.
Whenever you commit to something you truly love, you are absolutely tenacious in your ability to endure difficulties and overcome obstacles. You are highly responsible; you hate passing the buck. You possess remarkable willpower and a strong drive to succeed.
You are always looking for innovative ways of doing things.
Because you seek to be the boss in any endeavor, you have a tendency to dominate others. If you are not careful, especially in dealing with your subordinates and family, you may become ruthless in your decisions and behavior. You can also fall victim to impatience and intolerance, particularly if you grow conceited or superior.
You are the pioneer and the ground-breaker. You love the foreground, the hot-seat of responsibility. You have all the talents to succeed. As long as you maintain balance in your life, allowing others full expression of their thoughts and abilities, you will easily rise to the top of your chosen field and realize your ambitions.
Maria, your Heart's Desire is 27/9
You want to be of service to the world. Your deepest satisfaction comes from knowing that you have advanced the cause of humanity.
Your ideals are of the highest order. You are a perfectionist. You strive to make the world a utopia; to make each person's lot in life better; to become perfect yourself. One of your challenges in life is to strive toward your lofty goals and at the same time recognize the good you are doing.
You like and are fascinated by people from all walks of life. Human nature is a lifelong study for you. You are highly intuitive, but not an especially good judge of character. You are a bit naive, as well, thinking perhaps that all people have the same values as you.
You dream of having the resources to immediately relieve the suffering of others, whether it is economic, physical, or psychological.
You are gifted with a good mind and a great deal of wisdom, which makes you a natural teacher, counselor, or healer.
As much as you desire to be of service to others, you also crave fame and the approval of the masses. Much of the energy you expend in life is directed toward putting yourself before an audience, most often as a salesperson whose product provides some social good; as a philanthropist; or an artist.
You are attracted to the arts as a vocation, especially as an actor, photographer, or writer. But whatever your profession, any involvement in the arts, even as a hobby, will provide you with a deep and lasting satisfaction.
Secretly, you dream of having a big impact on the world. Others may see this as egotism, especially when you are still young. But your concern for others is genuine. You must apply yourself in this direction in order to become psychologically whole and personally satisfied.
Your vision is on the crowds of people, which can cause you to overlook the needs of those closest to you. You need personal love as well, but have a tendency to put your needs in the background. Still, you are a loving person, and only need to be reminded to direct and demonstrate that love to those nearby. If, however, you are focused exclusively on the masses, people will perceive you as distant and a bit aloof.
You are emotional, and sensitive. You can also be moody and critical. You have high expectations for yourself and others. This can cause you much anger when your expectations are unfulfilled. One of your most important life lessons is to forgive.
Because you are striving hard to attain high ideals, you may think of yourself as superior to others. Arrogance is a trap many 9s fall into. The danger is that arrogance cuts you off from the thing you love the most: people.
Your happiness and contentment are therefore highly dependant on the ease with which you are able to serve and influence mankind.
It is the paradox of your Heart's Desire that you receive by giving. Both your material success and spiritual satisfaction are made possible through service and sacrifice to others.
Your Heart's Desire's compatibility is 1 and 9
Compatibility of the Heart’s Desire numbers is extremely important in a relationship - few relationships last beyond the initial stage if the Heart’s Desire numbers are not compatible.
Due to the fact that both of you have a tendency towards arrogance as well as to being somewhat egocentric, this is a very difficult relationship, as far as romance is concerned. At least in this aspect of the chart. It will only work if a certain amount of distance is maintained. Each of you has to live your own life. Ironically, although difficult, this is not a bad combination for most other kinds of relationships. Friendships, parent-child as well as business relationships, often work very well with this combination. Precisely because the numbers stand on opposite ends of the spectrum. They complement and balance each other. Together, they represent a lot of talents and useful qualities that ensure a powerful combination in most relationships, except in romance.
It is in romance that these numbers tend to be challenging.
The solution lies in mutual understanding, not to get in your partner's way, not to expect your partner to always be there for you, and certainly not to expect your partner to live the kind of life you feel is right.
This combination has a much better chance of surviving if Johnny and Maria have the number two and/or six among their other core numbers.
The numbers one and nine are far apart and this is reflected in Johnny and Maria's understanding of each other. In many areas of life you are so different that you can't even relate to the other person's view. And, as with every romantic relationship, these shared views are required. We feel secure in the knowledge that our partner confirms what we feel and think. And, if the relationship between Johnny and Maria is of the romantic type, there will just not be much of that.
Very often, when a one and a nine engage in a romantic relationship, the people on the periphery think it is very funny to see them together. Together but yet so different, so unique. Neither Johnny nor Maria tends to conform easily to the rules and expectations of society. And that is one of the few characteristics you have in common. However, you probably dress very differently, have very different tastes, and consider different things important. Chances are that you are each other's polar opposite. And, while we say that opposites attract, the trouble is that they also tend to push each other away when they get too close.
There are no easy solutions or foolproof guidelines that work here. If you have been together for a while and your love is strong, this love will keep you together. If the relationship is fairly recent, your focus should be on your heart, your pure and unconditional love for your partner. And here is the most important advice to make this relationship last: Don't expect to change or influence your partner.
PERSONALITY
Your Personality number is derived from the consonants of your name at birth. Your Personality is like a narrow entrance hall to the great room that is your true nature. It is those aspects that you feel comfortable sharing with people at the outset of a relationship. With time and trust, you invite others into the deeper aspects of your nature; you reveal more of who you really are, in effect, your Heart's Desire, life Path, and so on.
Your Personality number often serves as a censoring device, both in terms of what you send out, as well as what you allow to approach. It discriminates in the kinds of people and information you let enter your heart and mind. For this reason, your Personality is usually much more narrow and protective in its definition than the real you. It can screen out some of what you do not want to deal with -- people or situations -- but it also welcomes those things that immediately relate to your inner nature.
Johnny, your Personality is 17/8
You appear strong and powerful. You have an impressive personality and can influence and even intimidate through sheer force. You have natural authority. Your competence and enthusiasm attract people with resources.
You radiate confidence. People defer to you because they sense your sureness and effectiveness.
You also exude a kind of controlled benevolence. People sense that you are generous, once you are convinced of the worthiness of the cause.
It is important for you to dress well. You radiate a kind of raw power and ableness, which needs to be refined and enhanced by your clothing. You may even dress a bit flashy, but that will not harm you. Quality is among your highest priorities, and should reflect in your clothing.
Although most eights have a strong constitution, they can be prone to indigestion, ulcers, and heart disease due to their reckless eating and drinking habits and their propensity to be workaholics.
Your Achilles heel is your capacity for an egocentric attitude. The negative side of your personality can cause you to be ruthless, greedy, and intensely lonely.
Conversely, you can be spontaneous and excited. You are essentially warm and jovial. In your heart of hearts, you want everyone to be as excited and as happy as you. Those who are around you often sense this. Your coworkers and employees usually like you.
Maria, your Personality is 15/6
You radiate understanding and compassion. People sense your warmth and fairness. For this reason, you attract many people who are in need of comfort, including the disadvantaged. People tend to come to you to unload their burdens. You inspire confidence.
You have a fine sense of justice. You do everything in your power to keep the harmony and are even willing to sacrifice your personal desires for the good of others.
You can take this too far, however, sometimes playing the role of the martyr. You have to guard against being taken advantage of. You are not always a very good judge of character. You tend to see the best in others.
You also can become too involved in the lives of others, to your own detriment. (This aspect can be balanced by other numbers in your chart.)
You are hospitable and domestic. You love children and are a good parent. You are romantic, faithful and very protective.
You are artistic. You love music, flowers and gardening. You are a natural interior designer. You have an excellent sense of color and taste.
You are more concerned with the content of your personality than your appearance, which causes you to be less conscious of the style of your clothes. You are more interested in comfort and the utility of clothing than the statement it makes.
Six Personality Numbers are exceedingly generous. You are not particularly logical when it comes to finances.
You are very vulnerable to praise and criticism. You tend to worry a lot, causing stomach problems.
People see you as a maternal or paternal figure. They want to relax in your presence and unburden themselves. You are the safe port in the crowd.
Your Personality's compatibility is 8 and 6
Quickly recognized when two people first meet, not many relationships even get started unless the Personality numbers are compatible.
Maria and Johnny, the six and the eight are very compatible. You are both practical and goal-oriented people who are not afraid of responsibility. However, there are big differences in the way the six and the eight view responsibility, and even bigger differences in the way they pursue their respective goals.
Maria’s sense of responsibility is strongly focused on family and friends. Maria will be hesitant to do anything that could endanger the comfort and lifestyle of those Maria is committed to. Johnny’s sense of responsibility is committed to goals and dreams - their fulfillment is Johnny’s priority. Where Maria will be very reluctant to take risks that might reflect on those Maria cares about, Johnny will not hesitate to take certain carefully calculated risks because Johnny feels that, if those goals are met, the lives of everyone around will improve. Maria is capable of working for a long time to reach a goal, but Maria is much more grounded, Maria will hesitate to step away from the beaten path. Johnny has a sense of business and is a visionary with a practical, can-do mentality.
Interestingly, the six-and-eight combination is excellent for business partnerships. The six keeps a reign on the dreams and visions of the eight. In turn, the eight can inspire the six to aim higher and take advantage of the opportunities lying ahead. Without an eight to inspire a six, the six will likely remain confined to small dreams requiring little or no risks. Without the grounded realism of the six, an eight often gets lost between the vision and the goal. In a romantic relationship, Maria and Johnny, the numbers found in this part of the chart similarly play off each other’s strengths in ways that can be very good for the relationship.
Problems can arise when one partner tries to dominate the other, which has been known to happen between a six and an eight. Maria, your tendency to take on any burden, your willingness to sacrifice, and your need to feel secure in a relationship, can make you a victim to the somewhat authoritarian and demanding nature of Johnny’s eight. Sometimes, the opposite happens, and the inherit talent of Maria’s six to make others feel guilty simply by showing how much Maria is willing to do for them can put a real damper on Johnny’s potentially powerful and focused energy.
Maria and Johnny, this aspect of your charts is somewhat similar to reaching a fork in the road. You have a choice between enriching and enhancing each other’s strengths and talents, or frustrating your partner’s opportunities. The key to maintain a balanced relationship is not to try to dominate each other.
PERSONAL YEARS
Your Personal Year number is a strong indication of the trends and circumstances you will experience during the year ahead.
Johnny, your Personal Year for 2002 is 3
This is a year of expansion and personal growth. It is a time of heightened personal expression. Creativity and artistic talent come to the forefront. You are lighthearted and drawn to all kinds of social events.
More than most other years, you will entertain and be entertained. You meet new and exciting people. It is a time to appreciate all that you have.
You are highly dynamic and charismatic. Your challenge is to avoid scattering your energies. You have a rare opportunity to bring forth new and creative ideas. But that requires discipline and focus.
It is easy to be optimistic and enthusiastic this year and this may result in speeding up your projects. Yet there will be delays and disappointments unless your enthusiasm is based upon the reality of work and concentration.
This is a pleasant time in which friendship is enjoyed and love shared easily.
This is often a good financial year, particularly if your creativity is well directed. Surround yourself with upbeat and positive people.
You may travel more than usual, which in all likelihood will be filled with exciting people and pleasure.
Control this years tendencies towards glamour and extravagance, yet allow your self more room to enjoy and celebrate.
You communicate well this year and are more capable of getting your ideas across.
Love is in the air.
February brings changes; June sees the completion of a project and July signals a new beginning. August can be emotional, as can November.
Maria, your Personal Year for 2002 is 6
This is a year of progress and financial advancement. Major career opportunities present themselves. It is a challenging year in which personal growth is joined with new responsibilities and challenges.
This is a year of domestic responsibility and attention to the needs of family and friends. It is a time of heart felt emotions and some sacrifice. It is a time for comforting and caring.
You realize the importance of your place within your community. You will be called upon to help others bear their burdens. You are the proverbial friend in need.
You must work to create an atmosphere of harmony and balance. It is often a time when marital issues surface and need attention. However, you possess the understanding to deal with such issues effectively if you apply yourself with love and flexibility.
These deep feelings bring renewal to relationships and often a birth in the family.
May is an emotional month filled with the promise and the stress of imminent changes. June is a breakthrough and a relief. September brings advancement, October self- reflection and readjustments, and December brings a sense of completion and fulfillment.
PERSONAL MONTHS
Johnny, your Personal Month for July 2002 is 1
July is a 1 Personal Month in a 3 Personal Year. It is a time of dynamism, courage, and eagerness to begin the new. Last month's blues are gone and you feel you are on top of the world. You are more original and creative than at any time of this already creative year.
Many of those in a 3 Personal Rhythm Cycle may finally break out of unrewarding patterns. Some may even make career changes, or start their own businesses. This is not a time to be squeamish in any area of your life -- be it money, career or romance. You may experience an urge to write, paint, or express yourself in some other creative way. By all means, take on the challenge.
If you are not already involved, you may well meet someone special, but the relationship, while intense and passionate, may not be a lasting one.
This is a month that will also bring opportunities to mingle with new acquaintances at social events. You will be outgoing and witty. These are great opportunities to make lasting contacts which will help your career and other endeavors.
A warning to the easily excitable: don't brag about your plans and accomplishments. The effect may backfire.
Maria, your Personal Month for July 2002 is 4
July is a 4 Personal Month in a 6 Personal Year and it is a time to seriously apply yourself to your duties and responsibilities. Take charge in home, career, and community affairs. Be patient and apply yourself to routine and details diligently. Organize your personal life and your career. Tie up lose ends. Start projects that will improve your living situation such as repairing the house or starting a garden.
Someone in your circle of friends and relatives needs help. Usually, this is a younger person who has not yet found stability or purpose in life.
This month may well bring an excellent opportunity in your own career. Focus on legal affairs. Discipline and effort are the key-words for this month.
Romance takes a more serious turn. Expectations are expressed and commitments made.
Your Personal Month for July 2002's compatibility is 1 and 4
Relationship compatibility of Personal Month cycles can have a powerful effect. But keep in mind: the cycle is short. So, if you run into turmoil, it helps to remember that it is in the nature of a cycle to be only temporary.
Note: The compatibility between cycles is repetitive, as is the nature of cycles. While the influence of Personal Month cycles represented by the same number, can vary greatly depending on the yearly cycle, the compatibility aspect changes very little. You will therefore find that the compatibility description is the same when, for example, a 3 and 4 Personal Month combination is found in a 5 year, as when it is found in a 6 year.
Therefore, you will find that the possible influence of your Personal Month cycles never repeats itself within any one-hundred-and-eight-month period. However, the compatibility aspect repeats much more often - generally every nine months - but sometimes even less than that, depending on your Personal Year cycle.
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